Annie Fox for Teens... Hey, Terra!

Hi there… How’s it going? Probably not all that great or you wouldn’t be here looking for help. No worries. Teens have been emailing me since 1997 because I give good advice. If you’ve got a problem with friends, so-called friends, a bf/gf, a parent, or anything else… email me. I can help you sort out your feelings. No matter what’s going on, you always have choices. And choices matter because sometimes the stuff we do to “fix” a problem only makes things worse. You don’t want to go there. Instead, let me help you figure out your next best move

In friendship,
Terra (aka Annie Fox)

From Terra’s Inbox

“First he told me he was crazy about me then he says he wants to back up!”

 

“I'm not interested in a relationship but...”

Hey Terra,

About 4 years ago I used to date this guy, then we broke up. Then I started going out with another guy, and we were together for 3 years. Well this guy didn't like for me to talk to my ex-boyfriend so I didn't. But I always thought about him, and then about 2 months after me and my boyfriend broke up I showed up on his doorstep. I was just looking for an old friend that I missed, well he seemed to fall in love with me.

We talked for hours and then the next day he told me how he felt about me and how he really liked me and wanted us to start dating again. I told him I didn't know because I...

 

Hey Terra,

I haven't been single in a while. I've been kinda seeing 2 guys for like the last year (at different times!). But now I'm single and loving it! Except for the fact that I have a crush on this guy, and I'm pretty much off my game. I have no idea how to talk to him now. Before, when I had a b/f, I could talk to him cuz he was like, my friend... but it's SO hard for me now. It's not like I want another relationship or anything right now, cuz I'm fine with not having a b/f (I just wanna flirt with him!), but I really just want to go back to being my confident self... like the one who can...

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